When we get to the end of a relationship and either one or the other party has found someone new, or it’s just simply run out of steam, our gut response is to blame each other for our distressing feelings.  It’s nice and cosy to be able to lick our wounds while exorcising all our pent up anger and frustrations at the ‘offending’ party.   And in fact, it’s human nature. (more…)

I wanted to write to you today and talk a bit about relationships, you know, those tricky intimate interpersonal communication channels that many of us take for granted!

I meet couples and individuals in my line of work all of whom are in some way or another, engaged in a relationship with someone.  (more…)